Missionary Eyes

Lord, give me missionary eyes
To see the lost and dying,
To see their pain and crying.
Lord, give me missionary eyes.

Lord, give me missionary hands
To selflessly serve in any way I can.
Knowing that my reward will be
eternity spent next to Thee.
Lord, give me missionary hands.

Lord, give me missionary feet
to take your precious gospel down the street
to those who need to hear today,
to those who need to know the Way.
Lord, give me missionary feet.

Lord, give me missionary zeal
for there's a dying world that needs
to feel that someone cares about their soul,
Loosen my tongue, Lord, make me bold.
Lord give me missionary zeal.

Lord, give me missionary eyes
to see the lost and dying,
To see their pain and crying.
Lord, give me missionary eyes.

by Wayne Talley

Cultivating community takes courtesy

Courtesy is respecting our differences, being considerate of each other’s feelings, and being patient with people who irritate us. The Bible says, “We must bear the ‘burden’ of being considerate of the doubts and fears of others {Romans 15:2} (LB).” Paul told Titus, “God’s people should be bighearted and courteous.”{Titus 3:2} (Msg)

In every church and in every small group, there is always at least one “difficult” person, usually more than one. These people may have special emotional needs, deep insecurities, irritating mannerisms, or poor social skills. You might call them EGR people – “Extra Grace Required”

God put these people in our midst for both their benefit and ours. They are an opportunity for growth and a test of fellowship: Will we love them as brothers and sisters and treat them with dignity?

In a family, acceptance isn’t based on how smart or beautiful or talented you are. It’s based on the fact that we belong to each other. We defend and protect family. A family member may be a little goofy, but she’s one of us. In the same way, the Bible says, “Be devoted to each other like a loving family. Excel in showing respect for each other.”{Romans 12:10} (GWT)

The truth is, we all have quirks and annoying traits. But community has nothing to do with compatibility. The basis for our fellowship is our relationship to God: We’re family.

Our key to courtesy is to understand where people are coming from. Discover their history. When you know what they’ve been through, you will be more understanding. Instead of thinking about how far they still have to go, think about how far they have come in spite of their hurts.

Another part of courtesy is not downplaying other people’s doubts. Just because you don’t fear something doesn’t make it an invalid feeling. Real community happens when people know it is safe enough to share their doubts and fears without being judged.

- Rick Warren

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Every new day, we learn something new about someone or something, so continue to keep an open mind to learn new things about one another and to love unconditionally as Jesus does to every single one of us.

Proverbs 25:25

As cold waters to a thirsty soul, so is good news from a far country.

Sunday - Learning and Thanksgiving

So it rained to start off the day but still it's a good start for Sunday, cooling weather on sabbath. Decided to go for children service and since the adults 9am teaching was in the same room, there wasn't a need to move from the audi back to DCB, save some time of travelling up and down if i had gone for youth's 9am teaching instead. Adults side very professional, provide clipboard to go along with every set of notes they printed out. Of course, compared to youth, not many turned up for their 9am teaching but what was been shared is worth going to listen and learn from.

Jacob's Call or God's Promise

1. > The barrenness of Sarah, Rebekah as well as Rachel and Leah reiterates that the promised blessing through the chosen seed of Abraham is not to be accomplished merely by human effort. The fulfillment of the promise at each crucial juncture requires a specific act of God.
   
2. > A central theme of Genesis - the struggle betw the bros (started with Cain and Abel). Struggles were necessary for the accomplishment of the will of God but that God's will was accomplished in spite of the conflict.


3. > The older will serve the younger.

Gen 28: 10-22 > God promise not to forsake them(Abraham and Jacob) and will return them to their land

Gen 30: 25-43 > The deal struck betw Jacob and Laban was God's blessing and his continued faithfulness to his word as well as the promises he had given to both Abraham and Issac.

Gen 33: 1-17 > The reconciliation of the brothers and Esau's partaking of the blessing that Jacob had received(v.11) picture the ultimate fulfillment of God's promise to Abraham:" All people on earth will be blessed through you."(12:3)

• God's words recall the primeval blessing of Creation(1:28) and hence show God to be still at work in bringing about the blessing to all humanity through Jacob.

Just as Abraham had 2 sons and only one was the son of promise, and just as Issac had two sons and only one son was the son of blessing, so now Jacob, though he has 12 sons, 2 wives, each having a son(Judah and Joseph) who can rightfully contend for the blessing. In the end, it as Judah, the son of Leah, not Joseph, the son of Rachel, who gained the blessing(49:8-12).

1. > God is sovereign. God's choices prevail. God chooses a person by his sovereign will, not because of the accomplishment of the person.


2. > God is faithful and keeps his promises. Therefore he is trustworthy.


3. > God is a personal God who seeks to draw us into fellowship with him, transform our characters and work out our lives for our ultimate best interests which line up with his divine will.

Children Service

It's been ages since i went for 1 ! Last time i attended 1 was back when i was pri 5 ! Had a wonderful time interacting and learning from the kids as well. They had icebreaker games and the boys seem more interested than the girls. Maybe cos they felt the game was too difficult but it was made up for with the blowing of bubbles which make so many of them run ard chasing after them. Maybe shld buy some to bring to Balai this wk end. They even have memory verse! Gal 5:13 > Serve one another in Love. Indeed, the entire service was focus on serving those ard us with love be it friends or family. Kids attention spam is very low, so they need a constant change of activities to keep them engage. And yes, in whatever setting, there is always a special/outstanding person that needs more attention and care and whom we can call EGR people – “Extra Grace Required” . God has a special purpose for them, that both sides learn from one another and that we love the person for who he/she is. (Will post a short article on this soon). A good learning experience as well as thanksgiving to see the love that God has for the children in his kingdom.

Badminton in the afternoon

So long haven't gone to play already cos it's so far in CCK. Very rusty! But the main pt was really the blessing for the day.

Ya, broke my racket! Clash it against another racket as we were hitting the shuttlecock so it broke. The uncle was very nice, gave me his new racket! Means i need to go back to play more often esp since the gift isn't very cheap. Had a wonderful time of fellowship with dinner and games as well with the fantastic gang of u know who la.

A unique sunday indeed.

Prayer For A Friend

(do try to listen and understand the meaning of the song, its very meaningful. Pls view the blog using IE, firefox wont be able to play the song, thanks)

Lyrics:

Lord, I lift my friend to You, I’ve done all that I know to do

I lift my friend to You

Complicated circumstances have clouded his view

Lord, I lift my friend up to You

I fear that I won’t have the words that he needs to hear

I pray for Your wisdom, oh God, and a heart that’s sincere

Lord, I lift my friend up to You

Lord, I lift my friend to You

My best friend in the world, I know he means much more to You

I want so much to help him, but this is something he has to do

And Lord, I lift my friend up to You

Cause there’s a way that seems so right to him

But You know where that leads

He’s becoming a puppet of the world, too blind to see the strings

Lord, I lift my friend up to You

My friend up to You

Lord, I lift my friend to You, I’ve done all that I know to do

I lift my friend to You

Behind the Song:

This may be the earliest of any of my songs to be used on a Crowns record. Maybe 15 years old. I was heartbroken before God for a friend who wouldn’t listen. God showed me that nothing is impossible with God. ~Ephesians 3:14-21 / Philippians 1:3-11 / 1 John 3:16 / Proverbs 17:17 / Proverbs 18:24 / Job 6:14 / Philippians 2:2-4 / 1 Timothy 2:1 / 1 Peter 3:8 / Romans 14:19 / Luke 18:1-8 / Proverbs 12:26 / 1 Corinthians 15:33 "This is the oldest song on the CD. I wrote it back in college. I had a friend who was making some bad life decisions. Several of us who had been praying for him decided we needed to talk to him. So we confronted him and stayed up until four in the morning, praying and crying and talking with him, but he didn’t listen. Over the next few years, he really reaped the whirlwind for the choices he made. It’s a helpless feeling when you think it’s on you to change or save a person, when all you can do is speak the truth in love and lay them at Jesus feet. Today, that valley is a mountaintop… He’s walking with Jesus and has a great life and ministry. So this song is just a reminder to never give up on your friends." - Mark Hall (Casting Crowns)

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Having a burden for a close friend who is slipping away? If God never gave up on us to draw back to him, let's not give up on those who we regard as good friends despite the setbacks we might encounter when we reach out to them. Continue to pray and trust that God will do the work for you in drawing the person back to Him.

Mutual Submission

Since sermon teaching on Sunday touched a little bit on submission for each gender, i think it would be good to know more and from a differnet angle what u'll be heading into when one gets married in the near future and how to view marriage in a differnet light altogther. Blessed learning all.

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True servants of Jesus who are married understand clearly what Ephesians 5:21-33 really teaches about the roles of husband and wife in biblical marriage. They do not have to fight or argue over what respectful submission to the husband means for the wife, and what sacrificial and nurturing love for the wife means to the husband. They are already servants or bond slaves of Jesus Christ: they understand that Christian marriage means they will be loving and humble servants to each other, as husband and wife in mutual submission, because each of them is first submissive or surrendered to Christ (Eph 5:21). They realize that mutual submission to each other out of reverence for Christ in Ephesians 5:21 precedes the rest of the text that speaks of wives submitting to and respecting husbands, and husbands loving their wife even to death, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up and died for the church!

Paul Stevens insightfully points out that mutual submission is actually reversing the curse that came after Adam and Eve fell into sin (Gen. 3:16)

Rule and revolt is not what God wants between the sexes, but the inevitable consequences of separation from God. But in Christ, instead of ruling his wife, the husband loves her to death. Instead of revolting against her domestic master, the wife is free to bombard him with respect. This is not what each deserves. It is not even the duty each has to each other. It is gospel freedom, sheer grace ….. The key to understanding the marriage section of Ephesians 5 is the emphasis on Christ. We submit to one another, Paul says “out of reverence for Christ” (v.21) ..... All of these relationships – mutual submission, servant headship and reverence – are in Christ. They are not roles but expressions of spirituality. Our life together in Christ is not based simply on mutual submission or on a male-female hierarchy, but on Christ who chooses to dwell in the covenant.

Servants of Christ who are married know they are married in Christ, and need the continual filling of the Holy Spirit (Eph.5:18) with his presence and power, to be such loving servants to each other as husband and wife. They become “intimate allies” in the battle against the chaos in life in this world.

Gary Thomas had written what I believe to be one of the best and deepest books on what marriage is really all about from a biblical perspective. He asks the searching question: “What if God designed marriage to make us holy more than to make us happy?” He writes not about how to have a happier or more fulfilling marriage, but about the real purpose of marriage as sacred marriage: a spiritual discipline that helps us to know God better, trust him more fully, and love him more deeply. Hence, marriage is not as much about you and your spouse as it is about you and God! In Thomas’s own words: “Marriage calls us to an entirely new and selfless life ….. Any situation that calls me to confront my selfishness has enormous spiritual value, and I slowly began to understand that the real purpose of marriage may not be happiness as much as it is holiness….. If we view the marriage relationship as an opportunity to excel in love, it doesn’t matter how difficult the person is whom we are called to love; it doesn’t matter even whether that love is ever returned. We can still excel at love. We can still say, ‘Like it or not, I’m going to love you like nobody ever has’….. But there’s another challenge when two believers are both committed to pursuing a deeper spiritual reality in marriage – the formidable task of working to become not just a holy spouse, but a holy couple.”

Some examples of ways in which we can grow to become more like Christ in sacred marriage include learning to love and respect others, fostering good prayer, having our sin exposed, growing in the spiritual discipline of perseverance, embracing difficulty to build character, learning to forgive, developing a servant’s heart, becoming more aware of God’s presence, and developing our spiritual calling, mission and purpose. A crucial part of sacred marriage therefore is learning how to serve our spouses with a true servant’s heart.

- Tan Siang Yang

Love for everyone - are we able to ?

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. {John 3:16}

This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers. {1 John 3:16}

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Almost anyone and everyone can memorise by heart word for word John 3:16 but have u ever thought of 1 john 3:16? U've read abt God unconditional love for U, willing to even give his only son for our eternal life but how much love are we able to give unto others because He first love us?

You Are Not An Accident

You are who you are for a reason.
You're part of an intricate plan.
You're precious and perfect unique design,
Called God's special woman or man.

You look like you look for a reason.
Our God made no mistake.
He knit you together within the womb,
You're just what he wanted to make.

The parents you had were the ones he chose,
And no matter how you feel,
They were custom designed with God's plan in mind,
And they bear the Master's seal.

No, that trauma you faced was not easy.
And God wept that it hurt you so;
But it was allowed to shape your heart
So that into his likeness you'd grow.

You are who you are for a reason,
You've been formed by the Master's rod.
You are who you are, beloved,
Because there is God !

- Russell Kelfer

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Trust that your existance and where you're placed in is in accordance to his will. Be truly yourself always and let the blessings and talents you've been given to impact those around you. You're part of a great plan of God, that is just waiting to happen if you continue to have faith in your creator.